House Rules and Etiquette.

The Dungeon Monitor’s word is the final word; please respect them. The DM is there to keep an eye on scenes and making sure everyone is playing safely.

  • Please arrive and leave in street clothes. If stepping out of the building, please cover up and act appropriately.
  • All attendees to any event (public or private) must be at least 19 years of age.
  • Absolutely no drugs or alcohol permitted.
  • All play must follow the basic rules of safe, sane and consensual. NO means NO (unless previously negotiated that only a safe word will be used) RED means RED aka STOP! Do not touch other people’s toys, human or otherwise, without the owner’s permission.
  • Guests and members are expected to clean up equipment, play spaces and social spaces after use.
  • No cell phone use is allowed in the social and dungeon areas. Cell phones may only be used by the bar.
  • No penetration or oral to genital play is permitted.
  • Universal SAFE word is “RED”. Red means STOP! All play with regards to the scene must stop until the issue is resolved.
  • Unless it is part of a scene in a private room, genitals and nipples (male and female) must be covered in accordance with HRM bylaws.
  • No scat or water sports. Fire play, piercings, blood play or play involving masks or gags may be permitted by the DM with prior discussion. All forms of edge play will be at the discretion of the DM on duty.
  • Photography is permitted only in private rooms with prior notification to DM of all participants.
  • Please notify the DM when beginning a scene on equipment in the common area. Please limit scenes to 45 minutes.

Anyone found breaking these rules will be warned once by the DM. Anyone found breaking any rule after a warning will be told to leave.


In addition to the formal club rules, these guidelines help ensure the club remains a safe, fun and clean environment.

  • Respect the club rules. Don’t make the DM constantly remind you of them. They are posted in the club in case you forget.
  • Treat everyone with respect. You don’t have to be everyone’s friend, but try to keep personal issues outside the club.
  • Do not belittle any fetish or kink that you may not appreciate or understand.
  • Respect everyone’s gender identity. If you’re unsure which pronoun to use with someone, ask a friend.
  • Respect procedures and policy regarding booking of the three private rooms during play parties. Do not open a closed door unless you are the DM on duty.
  • Keep your personal gear in the closet or in the common room, not in the private rooms.
  • Many people have sensitivities, so please keep the use of scented products to a minimum.
  • Personal hygiene is important. Arrive at the club clean and keep yourself clean while you are there. If you have a particularly intense play session or are someone who sweats a lot, take a minute to freshen up from time to time.
  • Clean up after yourself. If you have a snack or a drink, put your trash in the garbage cans. Empty any liquids from bottles or cans and place them in the recycling bin.
  • Clean up private room or dungeon equipment after using them and dispose of or take with you any consumables that you used.
  • If there is a scene in progress in the common area, try to avoid disrupting it as much as possible.
  • As a courtesy, if you notice someone coming into the common area who has obviously just come from a scene, make room on the couches for them.